Sunday, August 13, 2006
LOVEA word that cant be describe out. A word that is so powerful. A word that meant everything. A word that changes one person life.
Everytime when someone mention "I LOVE YOU" What value are inside the love? Its not by how many time you say it out. Only the action will give the answer on how deep I love you.
Where ever you walk, you see young couple, holding hands. Some do envy but some dont. Never judge or say by looking at them, "nah, this kinda couple wont last" Give them our blessing in our heart. Its a moment that will never happen twice in their life time. Whether it do last for them anot.
A lover that is more then friend. A pillar that is always there for you, standing there thru day and nite, sunny or rainy. Not by how rich or poor, handsome or pretty. Current asset will fade away one day. Dont rush into a BGR straight away, its always honeymoon for the first few months. After it, the true self start to show out. Quarrel begins, tears roll, heart bleeding. Love them for who they are. Never calcutae the love given out.
When marry, is the other party really consider your wife/husband?
The answers is NO.
When death came, is the other party now consider your wife/ husband?
The answers is YES.
Reason: A true loving party that can be pronouce wife/ husband is when they fufill the marriage vows. That he/she has done their part in loving each other in this life. Willing to give up everything for one another.
"[Name], do you take [Name] to be your wedded [husband/wife] to live together in marriage. Do you promise to love, comfort, honor and keep [him/her] For better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health. And forsaking all others, be faithful only to [him/her] so long as you both shall live?"
"[Name], I take you to be my lawfully wedded [husband/wife]. Before these witnesses I vow to love you and care for you as long as we both shall live. I take you, with all of your faults and strengths, as I offer myself to you with my faults and strengths. I will help you when you need help, and will turn to you when I need help. I choose you as the person with whom I will spend my life."
This why our parents still love each other. No matter how tired both are. They never give up each other. Do ask them and they tell you. A partner for life.
It might sound lame now, you will only understand it when time comes.
logged ; 9:11 PM
Sunday, August 13, 2006
LOVEA word that cant be describe out. A word that is so powerful. A word that meant everything. A word that changes one person life.
Everytime when someone mention "I LOVE YOU" What value are inside the love? Its not by how many time you say it out. Only the action will give the answer on how deep I love you.
Where ever you walk, you see young couple, holding hands. Some do envy but some dont. Never judge or say by looking at them, "nah, this kinda couple wont last" Give them our blessing in our heart. Its a moment that will never happen twice in their life time. Whether it do last for them anot.
A lover that is more then friend. A pillar that is always there for you, standing there thru day and nite, sunny or rainy. Not by how rich or poor, handsome or pretty. Current asset will fade away one day. Dont rush into a BGR straight away, its always honeymoon for the first few months. After it, the true self start to show out. Quarrel begins, tears roll, heart bleeding. Love them for who they are. Never calcutae the love given out.
When marry, is the other party really consider your wife/husband?
The answers is NO.
When death came, is the other party now consider your wife/ husband?
The answers is YES.
Reason: A true loving party that can be pronouce wife/ husband is when they fufill the marriage vows. That he/she has done their part in loving each other in this life. Willing to give up everything for one another.
"[Name], do you take [Name] to be your wedded [husband/wife] to live together in marriage. Do you promise to love, comfort, honor and keep [him/her] For better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health. And forsaking all others, be faithful only to [him/her] so long as you both shall live?"
"[Name], I take you to be my lawfully wedded [husband/wife]. Before these witnesses I vow to love you and care for you as long as we both shall live. I take you, with all of your faults and strengths, as I offer myself to you with my faults and strengths. I will help you when you need help, and will turn to you when I need help. I choose you as the person with whom I will spend my life."
This why our parents still love each other. No matter how tired both are. They never give up each other. Do ask them and they tell you. A partner for life.
It might sound lame now, you will only understand it when time comes.
logged ; 9:11 PM